Wednesday, January 16, 2008

The Power of Mothers

The phone rang this evening at the library information desk. The lady calling had a rather odd request. Her daughter was coming to the library to meet a friend for a study session. Daughter had borrowed Mum's car (yes, she was of driving age) and Mum needed to pass a message to her girl. Nothing earth-shattering, just a message about an item left in the vehicle. I was given a name and description of both the woman's daughter and the friend said daughter was meeting, with a request to please track the girl down and relay the message.

Sure enough, I found the two girls tucked in a corner, studying. Approaching the one who matched the woman's description of her daughter, I said "Excuse me, Sally*?"

Sally looked up at me with a mixture of confusion, fear and horror. "Um, yes?" I could imagine the thoughts thundering through her head in quick succession: Who is this stranger and how does she know my name? She looks like she works here, am I in trouble for something? Oh, no, has something terrible happened to someone I know?

I quickly placated her by saying "It's nothing bad! I just have a message from your mum." I gave her the message and watched the tension drain away, leaving just the confusion.

"Uh, OK, thanks," responded Sally, "but how did you know how to find me?"

I laughed as I walked away, saying "Sally, we mothers know EVERYTHING!"


*: Not her real name, for obvious reasons.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Now, why is it that people grow up to say the exact same things that used to drive them insane about their own mothers? It seems that as soon as a woman gives birth, she gives herself permission to use every tired cliché in the book.

Seriously. How is it that so many people forget what it’s like to be a teenager and always being treated with condescension by those who think they “know better” simply because they are older?

Canadian Girl said...

Hi Emma, thanks for visiting. I apologize if I offended you - that was not my intent. Nor did I mean to be condescending towards teenagers or anyone else. Apparently I need to work on my writing skills.

I merely was trying to express how resourceful someone can be if they really need to be, such as trying to find someone to relay a message. Had it been the mum at the library and the teenager calling with the message to relay, I probably would have said something to the mum along the lines of "Never underestimate the determination of a teenager." It was meant to be lighthearted.